It dawned on me last night as I stood at the airport that the change in weather has an added benefit for me and me alone.
You see I am in love with a woman that is beautiful in that truly "soft" kind of way. It is that touch of femininity and class that makes her appear softly beautiful. She couldn't pull off the "high-heels, short skirt, over-makeup, harsh" kind of look. It just isn't her. Her beauty is nestled in her soft eyes and dazzling smile. Features that are far more tantalizing than a "made up" woman has to utilize to get attention. This isn't to say my wife isn't sexy, she is very sexy. Just never in that trashy way.
This soft beauty lends itself very well to this season. Extremely well.
Why you ask? Because this kind of soft beauty looks amazing in one particular garment that fits the season AND truly fits the love of my life. THE SWEATER!
Now, mind you, there are a few particular other reasons she looks great in a sweater (I will let you figure that out on your own), but accentuating her soft beauty is at the top of the list. So during this season I get the benefit of seeing her in all kinds of different sweaters and enjoying them all. Add in the right kind of jeans with that sweater and well, we may not make it out of the house to enjoy the weather (if you know what I mean :))
So stick around cool weather. I love it. I win at all turns. My wife looks beautiful. I am not dying for the heat and it is Badger football season! (she looks great in Badger wear too BTW)
However, in case you need a boost my love, I have added some links to help you get started this season. Your favorite stores. My favorite time of the year.
http://www.jjill.com/jjillonline/prodnav/grid.aspx?pfid=19&h=M&sk=M&BID=815048445
http://shop.nordstrom.com/c/womens-sweaters
http://www1.bloomingdales.com/shop/womens-apparel/sweaters?id=12374
You're the world to me. I love you more than anything in the world.
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
Monday, September 26, 2016
What love really is....
This post is short and intended to be so.
Recently I saw a man talk about the difference between love and loyalty. Essentially he said that both love and loyalty hold 3 things in common.
1) They both make you feel safe
I have no issues here - I am safe whenever I am with you. Together we can handle anything at anytime. We comfort each other and make the other feel like they have shelter. We make each other feel safe.
2) They both make your life easier
I can't even begin to tell you how true this is on my end. All the things you do for me. The list is endless. I can only hope that while less direct you are aware of everything I do for you. They may be far more subtle, but I do many things just for you. We make each others lives so much easier. Without one another life would be - hard.
3) They both make your life better
This is so simple, with you my life if better. Better than anything I could ever have imagined.
Then he ended with what separates loyalty from love.
He said "You can be loyal to something and suddenly change your loyalty, but when you truly love something....that is forever. It is a feeling you can never change. You may think you stop loving something, but you can't. If it is true love it is never ending.".
I love you forever my angel.
You're the world to me. I love you more than anything in the world.
Recently I saw a man talk about the difference between love and loyalty. Essentially he said that both love and loyalty hold 3 things in common.
1) They both make you feel safe
I have no issues here - I am safe whenever I am with you. Together we can handle anything at anytime. We comfort each other and make the other feel like they have shelter. We make each other feel safe.
2) They both make your life easier
I can't even begin to tell you how true this is on my end. All the things you do for me. The list is endless. I can only hope that while less direct you are aware of everything I do for you. They may be far more subtle, but I do many things just for you. We make each others lives so much easier. Without one another life would be - hard.
3) They both make your life better
This is so simple, with you my life if better. Better than anything I could ever have imagined.
Then he ended with what separates loyalty from love.
He said "You can be loyal to something and suddenly change your loyalty, but when you truly love something....that is forever. It is a feeling you can never change. You may think you stop loving something, but you can't. If it is true love it is never ending.".
I love you forever my angel.
You're the world to me. I love you more than anything in the world.
Writing I love You
Once there was this boy. He was so in love with this girl. Like he had never felt before.
He told he loved her all the time. Too much he thought. He was afraid if he said it too much she would run away.
At times he couldn't control himself and he had to say it again. So he came up with a plan. He would write "I L O V E U" with his finger on her arm. It would be cute. It would allow him to say it without saying it. This way he wouldn't scare her off. It would become a fun game.
She loved it. She found it cute. It worked.
He did it for years.
Over time he stopped doing it. Not because he didn't love her any longer or any less, but because he no longer feared he would scare her off. Plus they had a family now, there was so much love going around they needed fewer and fewer reminders.
Time passed and he kind of forgot about the game. He didn't mean too, he just didn't need to play anymore. They had found so many other was to express there love for each other.
Every once in a while he would do it at a random time. She would smile. He loved it when she smiled, but he would still go long periods of time without doing it.
"I L O V E U". So easy. So simple.
Now he finds himself wanting to do it more and more. Now after nearly 3 decades, he still has that overwhelming urge to tell her he loves her. But now he just says it. After nearly 30 years, they both know it. But it wouldn't hurt to have it be cute again.
She deserves some cute. Some romance. So it will start happening again.
"I L O V E U".
You're the world to me. I love you more than anything in the world.
He told he loved her all the time. Too much he thought. He was afraid if he said it too much she would run away.
At times he couldn't control himself and he had to say it again. So he came up with a plan. He would write "I L O V E U" with his finger on her arm. It would be cute. It would allow him to say it without saying it. This way he wouldn't scare her off. It would become a fun game.
She loved it. She found it cute. It worked.
He did it for years.
Over time he stopped doing it. Not because he didn't love her any longer or any less, but because he no longer feared he would scare her off. Plus they had a family now, there was so much love going around they needed fewer and fewer reminders.
Time passed and he kind of forgot about the game. He didn't mean too, he just didn't need to play anymore. They had found so many other was to express there love for each other.
Every once in a while he would do it at a random time. She would smile. He loved it when she smiled, but he would still go long periods of time without doing it.
"I L O V E U". So easy. So simple.
Now he finds himself wanting to do it more and more. Now after nearly 3 decades, he still has that overwhelming urge to tell her he loves her. But now he just says it. After nearly 30 years, they both know it. But it wouldn't hurt to have it be cute again.
She deserves some cute. Some romance. So it will start happening again.
"I L O V E U".
You're the world to me. I love you more than anything in the world.
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